Lady-Butterfly

Lady-Butterfly

Friday 15 October 2010

Form and Function

Form and function are often misapplied or confused with each other, so i'd thought i'd give my interpretation.

Form
Form to me is the intent or purpose that underlies an act itself - for the Joy of doing the task itself.

Function
Function to me is the pragmatic act to be accomplished to meet ones ends - the slightly begrudgingly achieved 'Have To', or What's In It For Me, Expereince!

As an Illustrative tale: the ‘Foot Massage’ argument from Pulp Fiction:

Some people massage another’s feet for FORM i.e. Because
1. They enjoy massaging another’s feet (and it is a win/win scenario because)
2. The other would benefit from a foot massage
3. They like making other people relaxed and happy
4. They like sharing Loving Kindness

Some people only massage another’s feet for FUNCTION i.e. Because
1. They've been 'asked' to do it
2. They are more likely to get ‘laid’ if they do it
3. They can and therefore ‘should’
4. It'll shut the ‘patient’ up for 5 minutes!

Whist the result may appear the same - the other’s feet get massaged - the intent is considerably different, and the kind of attention likely to be given, mindfulness and warmth are completely different.

How else can this be applied? Washing dishes?

Some people wash the dishes for FORM
1. They enjoy washing dishes for the sense of accomplishment they feel in doing a job well and with a obvious conclusion.
2. They enjoy the peace and 'meditation' available in an absorbing task
3. They enjoy the sensual experience of warm soapy water contrasted with greasy messy pots and pans
4. It is a valid distraction from everyday mind, (a mindfulness practice).

Some people wash the dishes for FUNCTION
1. To get the shitty job done
2. Someone's got to do it, and it looks like me again
3. Do i really have to?
4. There aren't any clean plates

Who is likely to enjoy the process and leave the plates cleaner?

Think of some of the other, so-called 'Chores' that we have to be ad see if thee can change them from a 'Function' to a 'Form' experience.

Washing Up,
Is like washing the baby Buddha,
The Sacred is the Profane,
Everydday mind
Is Buddha Mind!
(Peace is Every Step - Thich Nhat Hahn)

Thursday 7 October 2010

Language Questionnaire

Is there only 1 Language or are there many? If so how many are there?(guess!)

Why do you think that is?

How/why do you think they developed separately, and why do they persist?

If you chose to study another Language why (or why not)? What purpose would it serve?

If you spoke another Language, how might it change your perspective on the native speakers? Why/not? What advantages/disadvantages could it bring? Would it make you, wish to\become, more like them?

Is it OK to prefer a different Language to your native tongue?

Do some Languages have a range of convenience? Are some better at expressing different emotions/descriptions/viewpoints?


Now go back and answer the questions, replacing the word Language with, Religion, Philosophy or any other Abstraction (Model) you’d like!

Tuesday 28 September 2010

The Illusionary Nature of Reality?

I have been trying to find the ‘right’ words to convey my thoughts on this for a while and thanks to a book ‘One Minute Nonsense’* have found the analogy I wanted:


A journalist is interviewing a Spiritual Master (pick thy prefered flavour, banana, strawberry, chocolate etc)!

“What, concretely, is Enlightenment?”

“Seeing Reality as it is.”

“Doesn’t everyone see Reality as it is?”

“Oh no! Most people see Reality as they 'Think' it is.”

“What’s the difference?”

“The difference between thinking you are drowning in a stormy sea - and knowing you cannot drown because there isn’t any water for miles around.”



To me this represents the ability to take a step back from the ‘problem’, taking a few breaths, and then ascending the previously insurmountable!

Now in this sense, ‘Reality’ isn’t an illusion as such, but our perceptions/conceptions about it are, or at least based on ‘thought projections’ rather than seeing the world/situation as it truly 'is'.

We project all sorts of expectations on a scenario and are often surprised when events turn out ‘differently’ to them. Why should A occur, when B, C or even J are equally viable/possible options? Because we were only prepared for the occurrence of A! Do we therefore adapt our concepts? No, we more usually reinterpret the outcome in terms of A, no matter how difficult/complicated that is compared to any other interpretation. This would usually be considered at least ‘Unsane’ behaviour, or 'floundering in an ocean of one's own imagination!'

* One Minute Nonsense - Anthony De Mello
http://www.amazon.co.uk/One-Minute-Nonsense-Anthony-Mello/dp/8187886285/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1285673933&sr=1-1

Monday 27 September 2010

Breathing Through Your Eyelids!

Years ago i was at a girlfriends, and had flu, you know blocked up and snotty. Well we were in bed and the snuffling type noises were starting to get to the poor lady, compassion or not. I suddenly remembered we'd been watching Bull Durham (the baseabll film), and there was a line where Susan Sarandon's character says that the Aztec Shaman could breathe through their eyelids.





So, I decided to play the “What if I could?” game (or let’s pretend), where we suspend our disbelief and use our imaginations for a while. What had i got to lose - and it worked and here's how.  I've since played with breathing through all the Chakras with some ineresting results!





Sit comfortably with your back straight and feet flat on the floor (cross legged on the floor or lying on your back).  Hold your hands comfortably over your belly (diaphragm) and breathe slowly and deeply, noticing the rise and fall of your hands (belly) as you do so.  Now, focus both of your eyes on the centre of your forehead, between your eyebrows (your brow chakra, or “Third Eye”) and continue to do so as you shut your eyes.



Begin to visualise the passage of your breathe as it enters through your eyelids, and travels down the front of your body to the base of your spine.  As you breathe out, visualise the breath traveling up your back, round the top of your head, until it flows out again through your eyelids. after a few breathes you may even 'feel' a slight fluttering from your eyelids as the breath 'enters' and 'exits'!





Now, to make it slightly more calming, as you breathe repeat to yourself:-




Breathing In, I calm my body and mind,


Breathing out, I smile,


Dwelling in, the Present moment,


I realise that, it is a Wonderful moment.


(from Thich Nhat Hahn - Peace is Every Step)




This simple breathing technique will swiftly place the practitioner into an alpha state, clear the airways and stop ears from popping if practised whilst flying! (The 'scientific' explanation would be that it changes the pressure in your eustation tube thereby alowing the airways to become unblocked)





If it works - Use It,

If it doesn't don't - but give it a fair chance!




Enjoy: Whatever, Wherever, with Whomever!

Friday 24 September 2010

Barefootedness

OK - 20 years ago i ripped hell out of my right foot (being right biased) and was 'banned' by my then doctor from all sport.  At 22 i was fit active and the idea seemed silly!  However, as i soon discovered this was no laughing matter.  If i went to kick a ball back to kids in the park,  as a consequence, i may not be able to walk properly for a week - let alone climb a tree!  So reluctantly had to be a spectator at all but swimming.

At 25 i went to University in Hull, and consequently changed doctors etc.  Mentioning my foot problem to Dr Jones, he simply asked if i ever used to walk barefooted.  I replied i grew up 10 minutes from a beach in Cornwall - of course!  Apparently, as there was no operation available for my condition (at least on the NHS), if i went barefoot as much as possible, that would strengthen the muscle in my foot, which would then support the tendon, which could conceivably then allow me to participate in sport once more!

I don't think he ever envisaged me taking it as far as i did (6 months a year) but his advice paid off and could at least climb trees and have a kick about with friends (though my best position by far was always in goal!).  

Then 10 years ago, at 32, i managed to have an altercation with a motorbike; i got hit between the legs by a motorcycle courier,  then carried down the road on the front wheel, before he hit a car and i sailed over it!  Bike - cracked front fairing;  Me - broken pelvis, broken collar bone, contusions on my brain, slackened right eye muscle, numb mouth! Think that means it won!


I returned to Hull, (somewhere flat and cheap!), and within 6 months, breakages knit but I was left with double vision and a mouth that felt like the dentists injection was just about to wear off!  The Consultants answer: my bottom right eye muscle had slackened, so, as they couldn't tighten eye muscles (at least on the NHS), they would operate on my good left eye to make it as bad as my right eye!

To me this was like taking a car into the garage with steering issues and the mechanic saying, " You have a loose and a tight wheel, so what we're going to do is loosen off the tight wheel, to make it as slack as the other one to balance the steering!  Think you'd go to a different garage?


A second opinion revealed that the consultant was one of Europe's leading eye specialists, and that 95% of people with my condition had the operation.  To his surprise i asked about the other 5%?  He seemed confused.  I wanted to know about the 5% that didn't have the operation because i'd decided to become one of them!  We talked about the lazy eye patch that kids had at school - you remember - NHS specs with a plaster stuck over one eye?  It was specifically the lower part of my right eye that needed the exercise. Eye muscles are also intrinsically 'lazy' - you have to 'force' them to work! 

Having thought about it - of course - go barefooted again. i already knew how to do it - i just had to re-learn within my current constraints!  And if i stuck to it - no matter what! - then it might just be worth a try!  So, double vision when looking directly down, but not at about 1.5m ahead; so all i needed to do was check ahead ad adjust my footwork accordingly.  Yes i cut my feet several times.  But no i didn't have the operation.  In fact my eyesight is better now then when i was when i hurt my foot initially!

So, whilst these days i do use barefootedness as part of my spiritual practice in mindfulness, and Being Here Now!, it was fundamentally a GP, Dr Jones from Cottingham Road, Hull who lead me to the Barefoot Path and to whom my health, and 'Groundedness' will be forever indebted! Thank You once more, and may Blessings be showered upon thee and thy patients!